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Samwesty999
27 May 2009, 02:05 PM
Well, when I was a new born baby I had a prominent red strawberry birthmark on the right side of my forehead. The doctors told my mum that it would disappear by the age of 7 or 8, since that is the age when most are supposed to disappear.

Gradually over the years it got smaller, lighter, flatter and more faded, but it was still there. I really didn’t like it and I felt very self-conscious about it, leading to me having a fringe most of my life, due to the fact that I didn’t like it showing. Whenever it did show, some people curiously used to ask what it was, thinking it was a bruise or an injury - luckily no one ever mocked me or teased me about it. Maybe this is because it wasn’t very noticeable to others, but I felt like it was, probably due to being self-conscious.

I often said to my parents that I wanted it removed, but they didn’t think it looked that bad and were always put off by the idea for an unknown reason. Perhaps the reason was because they thought it would be a good way to identify me if I was missing or dead. Anyway, after years of asking, I went to the hospital a few months ago to inquire about it. The doctor said that I would need to see the laser surgeon and that the hospital wouldn’t pay for my treatment, saying it could cost a few hundred or thousand pounds.

So today I went to the hospital with my parents to see the laser surgeon, expecting him to speak to me about the treatment available. I was very surprised because he said I could have the laser surgery today! And that it would be totally FREE! He explained that the only main risk would be damage to my eyes if the bright laser got into them. This made me worry that the laser might blind me.

After a few more minutes of talking, I jumped onto the surgery bed and put some really tight glasses around my eyes, which would prevent the laser from getting into them. The laser didn’t hurt at all; it just felt like lots of electrical shocks being zapped onto the birthmark area, which made me jump every time.

When it finished, I looked in the mirror and saw that it was huge and purple. The doctor said that it was just the bruising and swelling, and that my birthmark should look like the rest of my skin in a couple of weeks. The big purple bruise made me feel more self-conscious in the short-term. On my way back home on the London underground, I kept moving my fringe around to make sure that no one on the busy train could see it.

Anyway, I feel very happy today and maybe I could have a shorter haircut in the future. By the way, it wasn’t a really big in recent years; it was flat, pale and around this size:
http://i140.photobucket.com/albums/r36/samwesty999/Birthmarksize.png

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So, do you have a birthmark? What type of birthmark is it? Where is it? Is it noticeable? Would you consider treatment?

Bizor
27 May 2009, 02:09 PM
I have a dark birthmark above my right elbow, I never noticed it until my mom pointed it out. In fact, no one notices it, it's in such a hidden area.

I don't see why you would want to get the surgery, a birthmark makes you even more unique and different. I am very self-conscious, and none of my "defects" ever bothered me.

Elkley
27 May 2009, 02:14 PM
Not completely sure its a birthmark, but I have this really light tan weird marking on my right arm. But you can't see it when I'm tanned, and since its practically summer, I have a slight tan and you can't see it anymore.

flyn pnut
27 May 2009, 02:15 PM
I have 2 birth marks. One above my right leg knee. The other on my neck.

I also had a mongolian blue spot. I have no idea why I had it, because none of my family are mongolian. But my Grandad was adopted, so that might have something to do with it :confused:

Pinky9378
27 May 2009, 02:20 PM
Not completely sure its a birthmark, but I have this really light tan weird marking on my right arm. But you can't see it when I'm tanned, and since its practically summer, I have a slight tan and you can't see it anymore.

Nope that would be a birthmark...I have two or three just like that on my legs and one on my stomach :rolleyes:
But my most noticeable one is on my right elbow...
I used to hate it 'cause everyone at school especially would ask what it was, then make fun of me when I told them...
So I used to wanna have that lazer surgery you got, but I don't anymore.
It's alot more noticeable now than it was from how many tans i've gotten lol, but I like it. It makes me special lol so...
It's here to stay x]

STaLAmiTe 67
27 May 2009, 03:26 PM
I have a birth mark on my ankle. You can hardly see it and it around your size. I don't mind them. I find them quite interesting actually.

SaFiEtCP
27 May 2009, 03:56 PM
I have no idea where my birthmark is, does everyone have to have born with a birthmark? Mabey mine is hidden somwhere

Melaugh
27 May 2009, 07:57 PM
I have a dot on the right side of my shoulder. It is really small. I though it was a tick when I first saw it.

Ryuzaki
27 May 2009, 08:02 PM
Not completely sure its a birthmark, but I have this really light tan weird marking on my right arm. But you can't see it when I'm tanned, and since its practically summer, I have a slight tan and you can't see it anymore.

That's exactly what I have!!! It's so pale though you can barely see it.

Also, a couple years ago I looked at one of my toes and noticed a brown mark on the side of it, so small I thought it was a splinter. I tried to get it out, to no avail. The next day, the dot was still there but with a brown circle around it. I think it's a freckle...but on my toe???

Tina
27 May 2009, 08:03 PM
That doesn't sound as awkward as where I have a birthmark....

Let's just say, it's near a private area. :P


Anyways, I don't think you should worry about your birthmark, at least when people see it they won't think it's an STD.

edit. dang. o.O i didn't read the whole thread, but anyways, i wouldn't be bothered by a birthmark there, the one i got is worst. XD

Pinky9378
27 May 2009, 08:04 PM
I have no idea where my birthmark is, does everyone have to have born with a birthmark? Mabey mine is hidden somwhere

Lol...
Have fun finding it...:rolleyes:

NickyPenny
27 May 2009, 10:22 PM
That doesn't sound as awkward as where I have a birthmark....

Let's just say, it's near a private area. :P


Anyways, I don't think you should worry about your birthmark, at least when people see it they won't think it's an STD.

edit. dang. o.O i didn't read the whole thread, but anyways, i wouldn't be bothered by a birthmark there, the one i got is worst. XD

Lol mines in a private area too. It's like a tiny bit below my waist, but it's not that big. I want it removed because.... let's just say I don't want her to be turned off or something else...

Pinky9378
27 May 2009, 10:25 PM
Lol mines in a private area too. It's like a tiny bit below my waist, but it's not that big. I want it removed because.... let's just say I don't want her to be turned off or something else...

Not trying to talk you out of getting it removed, but to be totally honest, I highly doubt she'd be turned off by that...
I wouldn't be at least
I just don't think that they're as big of deal as people make them
It's just up to you tho--just thought I'd let you know my opinion lol

NickyPenny
27 May 2009, 10:28 PM
Not trying to talk you out of getting it removed, but to be totally honest, I highly doubt she'd be turned off by that...
I wouldn't be at least
I just don't think that they're as big of deal as people make them
It's just up to you tho--just thought I'd let you know my opinion lol

Yeah it's not even medium size so it won't get in the way of business. :scary:

Pinky9378
27 May 2009, 10:33 PM
Yeah it's not even medium size so it won't get in the way of business. :scary:

Lmbo...
Glad to hear lol
this is so going in my sig btw ;)

Jeebus
27 May 2009, 10:51 PM
I have a stork bite birthmark. It's on the back of my neck and not really noticeable. I'm lucky. :p

Freebee93
27 May 2009, 11:13 PM
I have a few tiny dark spots on my arms and legs, but they're fading. I also have a bunch that are gone.

Miki_Niki
27 May 2009, 11:26 PM
I have one on my neck, its really noticable since the pigment is gone around it.
People always ask who I got a hickie from.. .-.

PoRyGoN-Z
28 May 2009, 12:55 AM
Yup. I have one right on my face next to my nose. ;_; I might just remove it.

Optomik
28 May 2009, 01:10 AM
I have a birthmark on my stomach/rib area. It's not too big and very pale so not too noticeable. I don't mind it.

Bludycomicsinc
28 May 2009, 01:38 AM
I have a birthmark left of my belly button. It's pretty dark and noticeable, the same it has been over the years. Nobody sees it unless my shirt is off. I wouldn't want it removed, it's been there all my life and I doubt it will be fading away anytime soon.

Skitsim
28 May 2009, 02:05 AM
I have a birthmark on my leg. When I was little, I thought a cockroach was embedded in there. :confused:
I also have a birthmark on my bottom. My family always teases me (in a friendly way) about it. :P

Snoopy4life
28 May 2009, 02:30 AM
I have one birth mark on my Hip and one somewhere else on the "bottom." :p

deagle98
30 May 2009, 11:35 PM
I have a birthmark in between my elbow and shoulder, it also on the back of my arm

it is shaped like ohio a heart (kind of) and the united states (kind of)

Snazzy
30 May 2009, 11:36 PM
I have one on my hip, it's shaped like a heart. Weird. o.O
I also have a bunch of really small ones on my right arm and I have a beauty mark on my face.

deagle98
30 May 2009, 11:39 PM
I have one on my hip, it's shaped like a heart. Weird. o.O
I also have a bunch of really small ones on my right arm and I have a beauty mark on my face.



Hey we have the same birthmark... lol


I bet it wont fade away its the color if you got a tan