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Basketcase1
24 August 2008, 06:25 PM
This sounds stupid right, but my boyfriend says he's going to kiss me tomorrow, nd I' nervous, because it'll be at school, but, that's not all, we have this thing wear people can go to if they are very earlier to get some breakfast, he says he'll do it there, but in the little cupboard where you get balls and stuff. I'm afraid because what if an adult walks in, I don't even know what type of kiss he's meaning and also, I've never kissed a boy, so I don't know what to do, it's making me feel sick because I'm so nervous. I don't know what to do. -_-

TheHuskerDu
24 August 2008, 07:17 PM
lolololololol



Who tells their BF or GF that their going to kiss them tomorrow? I mean it's like saying: "I'm going to give you a surprise birthday present tomorrow, since it's your birthday, right?" I mean if you really like the person, then you shouldn't have to worry, am I right? Wow, I mean if he's going to kiss you, and you like him, then you should be happy, :/

Basketcase1
24 August 2008, 09:16 PM
lolololololol



Who tells their BF or GF that their going to kiss them tomorrow? I mean it's like saying: "I'm going to give you a surprise birthday present tomorrow, since it's your birthday, right?" I mean if you really like the person, then you shouldn't have to worry, am I right? Wow, I mean if he's going to kiss you, and you like him, then you should be happy, :/


I know, but it would be my first kiss then, I've never kissed anyone.

NickyPenny
24 August 2008, 09:47 PM
I know, but it would be my first kiss then, I've never kissed anyone.

Hmm.. you shouldn't worry that much. Maybe he will take you in a spot where no one is looking. Or, he kissed you, so he should get in trouble and not you. And also, you can always make up " It was a dare " joke. :rolleyes:

REVENGE
24 August 2008, 09:53 PM
I promise that it's not worth stressing over - once it happens you'll just kiss back and you'll realize that it's a lot easier than you make it out to be before you try it. Trust me, it'll be fine. :]

NickyPenny
24 August 2008, 09:55 PM
I promise that it's not worth stressing over - once it happens you'll just kiss back and you'll realize that it's a lot easier than you make it out to be before you try it. Trust me, it'll be fine. :]

Yeah, there really is no need to worry. That's how I felt on my first kiss. :rolleyes: No worries.

Halo2gurl
24 August 2008, 10:04 PM
My first kiss came out of nowhere. It's ok, don't be nervous. Practice kissing maybe?
If you get way way nervous, play a little "catch me first" with him.
Meaning, he has to try to kiss you with you maneuvering his attacks.
That's what I did, apparently he caught me. It was a lot of fun though!

NickyPenny
24 August 2008, 10:07 PM
My first kiss came out of nowhere. It's ok, don't be nervous. Practice kissing maybe?
If you get way way nervous, play a little "catch me first" with him.
Meaning, he has to try to kiss you with you maneuvering his attacks.
That's what I did, apparently he caught me. It was a lot of fun though!

Haha, I hate when girls do that. :shout: I just wanna smoooch them!!! Hah, just kidding.

Also, practice kissing your pillow, wall, teddy bear, mom, sibling, water bottle, pretty much anything in reach. :)

Snazzy
25 August 2008, 12:19 AM
Haha, I hate when girls do that. :shout: I just wanna smoooch them!!! Hah, just kidding.

Also, practice kissing your pillow, wall, teddy bear, mom, sibling, water bottle, pretty much anything in reach. :)

Err.. mom? Sibling? No thanks.

But seriously, don't worry about it. It'll all fall into place. =]

NickyPenny
25 August 2008, 12:27 AM
Err.. mom? Sibling? No thanks.

But seriously, don't worry about it. It'll all fall into place. =]

Hah, that was a joke. The rest, eh, pretty serious. :D

Melaugh
25 August 2008, 01:00 AM
Do not kiss him.
I repeat do not kiss him.
This will cause damage to you relationship.
If your nervous dont not do it.
These may strain your relationship.
Also you may get caught.
~Dr.Matty Matt

Pen Rua
25 August 2008, 07:54 AM
I was really freaked also, when my GF and I were about to kiss. We kept getting distracted x] But anyway, don't be nervous, it'll be fine. It'll only last a few seconds.

Don't panic ;)
Also, if you do not feel comfertable yet kissing him, don't do it. If he is a good BF he will understand.


(Enjoy it ;D)

Check
25 August 2008, 08:16 AM
I get how you feel. I felt the same before I went on the first date with my current BF, I spent an entire night half wanting to get up and tell him I couldn't come, and half too excited to sleep. I guess you just have to go through with it and if you really like him, no matter how it ends up you'll be fine.

dragonfire93
25 August 2008, 09:32 AM
You'd think that he'd pick a more private place to have a kiss with your girlfriend. :rolleyes: Just ask him if you could go somewhere a bit more private. Call him up now, if you want, and discuss where you want to kiss. We've got a lot of private places in our school, and the most private place I know of I found, cleared out, and my friends and I now use it when we want to talk in private. It's in the Year 7 Area. I dicovered it in Year 7, and cleared it then. We use it now though. Noone can see us there. Find a place like that, and kiss to your heart's content. :) ;)

Floppydisk35
25 August 2008, 09:47 AM
I know, but it would be my first kiss then, I've never kissed anyone.

If you like him, go out with a bang! I've never kissed a girl to tell the truth (...), but even though, if you do love him, don't hesitate! : ) Good luck! ; )

Slip265
25 August 2008, 02:13 PM
lolololololol



Who tells their BF or GF that their going to kiss them tomorrow? I mean it's like saying: "I'm going to give you a surprise birthday present tomorrow, since it's your birthday, right?" I mean if you really like the person, then you shouldn't have to worry, am I right? Wow, I mean if he's going to kiss you, and you like him, then you should be happy, :/


That's just what i was thinking. :rolleyes:

Basketcase1
25 August 2008, 02:33 PM
Today he admitted he was nervous too, then we decided to wait for a little while before trying. Mods can lock this if they want. :)

leader706
25 August 2008, 03:15 PM
Today he admitted he was nervous too, then we decided to wait for a little while before trying. Mods can lock this if they want. :)

good, i hope everything works out. Seriously, be aware, I've only had one girlfriend in my life that wasn't nervous on kissing. good luck ;)

Floppydisk35
25 August 2008, 04:53 PM
Today he admitted he was nervous too, then we decided to wait for a little while before trying. Mods can lock this if they want. :)

An "improvised" kiss is better imo, I mean, a "timetabled" kiss doesn't sound good :confused:

Basketcase1
25 August 2008, 05:00 PM
An "improvised" kiss is better imo, I mean, a "timetabled" kiss doesn't sound good :confused:

Well, I don't really know, I'll just have to wait and see I suppose.

Pen Rua
25 August 2008, 06:08 PM
An "improvised" kiss is better imo, I mean, a "timetabled" kiss doesn't sound good :confused:
When my GF and I kissed, we began just talking about the disco we went to together, then asking eacher if we were together etc, then we decieded to kiss. So for me it was improvised, not planned.

Well, you will kiss him soon, Basket.

Cj1456
28 August 2008, 01:00 AM
wow, lol sorry.
ya, ive never kissed my gf, im to nervous to make the move, but i want to. nothing really is happening in my relationship. i need advice.

Melaugh
28 August 2008, 01:02 AM
Basketcase, how did it go?