Tough decission...

[zmactarheel]

Well, earlier today I saw one of my friends that I liked ALOT, but then we didn't see each other. Now we're able to see each other more, however, I have ANOTHER friend that I have known for longer, and liked for longer. At one point I thought I loved her. And now that she has a boyfriend, it makes me sick to think about him kissing, and touching her and stuff. Well basically what I'm asking for is advice. Go with the one girl, or hopefully wait out my other friends relationship?

And has this ever happened to you?

[Donnybrook]

I have been in a similair situation, I wouldnt take another chick as a 'replacement' I would tell the other girl how you felt whether she was in a realtionship or not. See how she reacts, if she doesnt have the same feelings. Forget her.

[Phenom]

Avoid relationships, and just chill out and mess around with girls.
Relationships tend to sink.

[I'm so clever, it's cool]

Avoid relationships, and just chill out and mess around with girls.
Relationships tend to sink.
You are correct, apart from the part where you state that he should 'mess around with girls'. You obviously do not have the greatest of respect for women. However, in every other respect, you speak the truth. Relationships, especially at a teenage age, are almost guarenteed to 'sink', so do not get yourself too worked up over your love life at your age. Just go with the flow and see what comes up.;)

[Phenom]

You are correct, apart from the part where you state that he should 'mess around with girls'. You obviously do not have the greatest of respect for women. However, in every other respect, you speak the truth. Relationships, especially at a teenage age, are almost guarenteed to 'sink', so do not get yourself too worked up over your love life at your age. Just go with the flow and see what comes up.;)

What did you think I meant by 'mess around'?
I meant like hang out and be friends.

Not Sex lol.

[I'm so clever, it's cool]

What did you think I meant by 'mess around'?
I meant like hang out and be friends.

Not Sex lol.
Ah, now I see what you meant, thanks for clarifying. It is quite difficult to pick up and form of emotion in posts in cyberspace;)

[Donnybrook]

Ah, now I see what you meant, thanks for clarifying. It is quite difficult to pick up and form of emotion in posts in cyberspace;)

Yeah I know what you mean. I know what Phenom meant though. And nice avatar btw. XD

[zmactarheel]

Still, I want to be in a relationship with the girl I thought I loved, we were supposedly, however, we didn't see each other in this time, and she 'broke up' with me over email. I think she was nervous or something, but when you get sick to your stomach thinking about it and cannot stop thinking about her, that's love, right? I don't think it is. But really, what is the definition of love?

[Donnybrook]

Pretty much what you just said, take the approach I said in my first post.

[zmactarheel]

Alright, thanks Donny. I just have to get my dad to tell her to call me, then we can talk all this out.. *sigh* this might not end well, I'll post what happened when it happens. Thank for the help everyone.

[Donnybrook]

No problem Z. Good luck, make sure you let her know where you are coming from, just start casual and then get into the more serious stuff.

[Phenom]

Don't do it Zmac, you'll regret it.
I regret mine. :(

But ya be cool about it.
Good luck.

[zmactarheel]

Don't worreh Phenomz!!! I'll be fine, I just wish she'd call.... I geuss I just have to wait it out. Thanks again for all the help everyone.

[I'm so clever, it's cool]

I'm glad you've made a single firm decision rather than let a large number of people influence you. Kudos to you

[Donnybrook]

hehe, I think Uncle Donneh gave Z the advice he needed.

[zmactarheel]

I'm glad you've made a single firm decision rather than let a large number of people influence you. Kudos to you

Thanks, it's worrying me, though. I don't know what she'll say, do, or even think. I have told her I like her before, but I suppose it's not as big as telling her I love her. What if she just completely freaks out?

hehe, I think Uncle Donneh gave Z the advice he needed.

Of course! How could you not? Oh, and on the "If you could meet a forumer" thread, you didn't put me on your list!

[I'm so clever, it's cool]

hehe, I think Uncle Donneh gave Z the advice he needed.
That is what I meant. He took the single piece of advice from one user, you, and went ahead with it. See, it's hard for you too:rolleyes:


Thanks, it's worrying me, though. I don't know what she'll say, do, or even think. I have told her I like her before, but I suppose it's not as big as telling her I love her. What if she just completely freaks out?
If she freaks out over something as trivial as that, then as far as I am concerned, she is not worth your time.

[Donnybrook]

Thanks, it's worrying me, though. I don't know what she'll say, do, or even think. I have told her I like her before, but I suppose it's not as big as telling her I love her. What if she just completely freaks out?



Of course! How could you not? Oh, and on the "If you could meet a forumer" thread, you didn't put me on your list!

Another one of those people I cant believe I missed sorry. (added)

[Lilly 309]

#1. It's important what you feel, wich one do you think you could be happier with?
#2. It's also important to find out if your friend with the guy likes you or him better. ( what I mean is like wich one does she want to be with)
#3. You should do what you think is the best choice for you.:)
Good luck!
P.S MAke sure you don't tell her you love her right of the bat. A guy did that to me once, ANd I totally freaked out. It's a big shocker. Take it slow.

[Makarov]

Well I'm dating, and she said she never sees herself breaking up with me. I am going to agree with Donnybrook. It may ruin a friendship though. The girl I use to like, well luckily we became awesome friends.